Yesterday I was on my way to a doctor’s appointment when I got a call that stopped me in my tracks. A stranger called me and told me that I didn’t know her but to be calm. She went on to tell me that my Mom was in a car accident, that she didn’t seem to be hurt badly and that she was refusing to go the hospital. She allowed me to speak to my Mom.
I was freaking out so I pretty much screamed to her that she needed to go to the hospital in the ambulance that was waiting there. I then rushed to get dressed and head out to the hospital, but which one?
I called back this kind stranger who then told me that my Mom again refused the ambulance ride to the hospital. By then I was yelling at this poor woman! She ran over to the ambulance and got my Mom on the phone. I told her that I wasn’t going to pick her up unless it was from the hospital. I found out what hospital, thanked the woman, left in my car and called my doctor to tell them I couldn’t make my appointment.
Mom was OK. The airbag didn’t go off so she was bruised by the seatbelt and her legs hit the dashboard. She got a citation and the other woman she hit was in the same hospital. It was surreal.
I’m thankful that she’s alright. There’s so much involved here but I don’t want to go into details. It’s just very stressful. I was sick all afternoon and night. I can barely move today. Hubby just said to let her make her own decisions because she will any way. So today when she told me that she’s renting a car I didn’t say anything. All I know is that I won’t drive with her and I won’t let Peanut get in the car with her any more.















I’m glad your Mom is doing fine.
Your husband is right, sometimes you just have to let your parents do whatever they want. When my Dad got drunk a lot because his business was failing (and had a lot of debt), there wasn’t much I could do but to tell him I’m there if he needs me. I couldn’t stop what he was doing, but I could at least tell him what I was thinking. Eventually he learned his lessons and everything is back to normal now.
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I’m happy your mom is okay and your husband is probably right, mom’s will just do whatever they want to no matter what you tell them. I know mine does.
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wow, thank God your mom is okay
that was so nice the other person called you